HOW ESSENTIAL IS MY BEST FRIEND?

As the quote says, you need to be the reason for someone to believe in good people, like wise this is an article about my best friend who proved me that the mentioned quote is true.

My best friend is one amongst the most important persons in my life.

 

I have very few people in my life who I trust and with whom I can be myself.

 

I do have few best friends in my life who have really special place in my heart and life. Each one has influenced me and have guided me through the dos and don’t. Most of them thought lessons that I will never forget.

 

But I believe every girl has that one male best friend in her life with whom she can share everything without having the consciousness of being judged.

 

I was a girl who didn’t had a male best friend for a very long time in my life. But one day from nowhere I get in touch with my 8th grade classmate, A cute boy with dimples and a charming smile. We were good friends back then in school days and we knew each other from that very age. And then after school we somehow lost contact and got busy with our life building our career, but little did we know that we were connected and are meant to be together. 

 

We started talking again after 5 years and I agree there were a lot of changes in both of us. It was during my birthday 2019 he wished me and started the conversation and I’m glad that he did.And then during the lockdown around first week of April we started to talk like real good friends and not having consciousness of being judged.  I still remember the day when we became best friends. It was on August 14th, we took our friendship to next level and named it as best friends. Even now we make fun of it saying it was the day before Independence Day you lost your independence . But we had never met each other in 5 years but we shared a really great bond. Then in my life came a point where I couldn’t decide what am I supposed to do regarding my career and I was blank. But he helped me out and guided me to know my worth and my potential and made me realize what I’m supposed to do as I was pretty confused regarding my career. I didn’t know if I could really succeed in this path and I was so low at that phase of my life but he stood by my side and helped me figure out what’s right for me and now here I’m doing what I like.

 

Life isn’t always predictable.

 

Life isn’t always a nice, smooth or a no traffic road but a road with little hurdles, though roads and traffic jams.

 

There came a phase in life which I never expected. I knew 2020 was cruel but didn’t expect to be this cruel to me, I lost my pet Sandy on November 9th 2020 and I didn’t know how to handle myself in this situation if my life and I was so low. And then he helped me come out of this staying far from me but yet he managed to handle me. He made me understand the practical aspects of life and yes, he did succeed in helping me come out from that phase of my life.

 

Then I had to select a college for my Post Graduation. I ran out of options because the decision of pursuing MBA was a sudden one and I had not taken up any entrance exams. Then we both met in a college on November 17th which we thought we would be choosing and we were happy that we would build our carrier together helping each other to achieve our dreams. But life isn’t always like as we want it to be, we had planned so much but nothing was working according to it and this made me feel even more stressed and frustrated. But life doesn’t be like how we want it but it will be like what’s right for us. Then somehow, we got our admission in the same college that is DSCE and it’s the best decision we took as individuals. 

 

We met on 20 November 2020 for the very first time after 5 years. That’s when I realized come what may he will be with me and this is forever.

 

He’s always been there as my strength and stood by my side no matter what. He knows how to handle things in a matured way which I couldn’t have done alone.

 

Life seemed really good until he tested COVID positive and so did my family. I didn’t know what to do I turned blank and felt helpless when I was seeing the things happening around me. But by God’s grace we are doing good now. But life is full of surprises and now we have second lockdown. This really did affect my mental health and made me feel very low and made me think negatively. But it’s he who helped me come out of it. There were days where I broke down and just felt so frustrated.He tried making me understand and help me think positively but this phase made me so frustrated that I wasn’t even able to realize what he was trying to tell. But he didn’t give up on me and helped me come out of this and now I’m a much better person that knows how to deal with these kinds of situations.

I just want to say that we just need to have that one person in our life whom we trust and has patience to listen to you and the one who won’t judge you.

 

I hope you have that one person in your life, if not I really wish you will find them soon.

 

 

I love you my best friend D and thank you for always handling me and my craziness. Thank you for letting me be myself and respecting each and  every decision that I make and for being there by my side and being my strength .